Planning an event, as I have found out, can be as easy or as hard as you want to make it.  I have lost count of the number of times I have been stressed over planning a party only to have it go one of two ways.  My advice don’t stress too much, you will only make yourself unhappy by trying to please everyone and you can’t please everyone! I think this comes down to me being a little older now and not being too concerned about what might happen.  If anything is going to go wrong, then it will,…